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Even our deepest and most loving relationships can encounter problems or misunderstandings. Relationships and communication get even trickier when people we don’t love are involved. It’s our responsibility to create the relationships we want to have in our lives, and this means strengthening the good ones and dropping the bad ones.
This tarot spread will help you identify the ONE relationship in your life that is giving you the most problems and offer actionable suggestions on how to deal with it.
Reading the Tarot Spread
For the tarot spread, shuffle the cards any way you’d like and lay out five cards in the order shown on the journal page.
CARD ONE: Who is causing me pain?
This card represents one relationship in your life that is struggling. It could be with an individual person or group of people.
CARD TWO: Where does our misunderstanding come from?
This card represents the underlying reason for your misunderstanding. This could relate to miscommunication, problems in your past, personality differences, dishonesty, misinformation, or anything that causes strife.
CARD THREE: What do I really want out of this relationship?
This card represents what you truly desire from this relationship. You may desire to deepen the relationship, move past your problems, explain yourself fully, ignore the situation, or end the relationship completely.
CARD FOUR: How can I communicate this so they will understand me?
This card represents the language you can use or the actions you can take so that they completely understand your desires from Card Three. To have stronger relationships, you must be able to communicate your desires clearly.
CARD FIVE: What one step can I take to immediately improve this relationship?
This card represents ONE action step you can take immediately to bring your desires into reality. Once you identify this action step, do not hesitate. Things will not improve on their own.
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For a similar tarot spread on strengthening your relationships, check out the Tarot Spread for Building a Circle of Support.
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